Ask-A-Boss #009 Don’t Just Win, Dominate by Naomi D Brown
Now ladies, you all know I think women are the superior species. However, occasionally are
male counterparts say or do something worth noting. As we feverously work to meet the end of the
year goals, I heard something that I believe is a great mantra for helping us get there.
While watching 60 minutes, Deon Sanders said something profound about his approach
towards games and building a program at Jackson State University. “I don’t just plan to win, I
am going to dominate." What if you took that same winning attitude and applied it to your next
client or pitch meeting? Could you not just win but dominate?
Historically women have been less aggressive and confident about asking for funding or
demanding the best price for their services.
● When pitching to investors, two-thirds of 750 females felt that they were not taken into
consideration seriously. (Nat West)
More and more, Her Corner business owners are seeking ways to change that narrative daily.
Tips for bringing a winning and dominating attitude:
● Prepare- Take 3 different time slots on your calendar to stop and prepare yourself
instead of cramming everything into the night before. ( I know the struggle is real, but
trust me it works!)
● Research competition- Knowing who you are up against, and industry standards will help
handle objections. You don’t’ need to be a walking data bank; but a little information can
go a long way.
● Practice – Use your staff, friends, family or even your Her Corner coach to rehearse.
● Pep Talk – What is your winning phrase or winning song that motivates you? Say or Play
it right before you go
Whatever you do to create a dominating winning attitude, keep in mind you started a business
because you have a unique product or approach to solving a problem. Translation; you know
what you are doing. Even if you don’t get the contract or funds, you are still a winner and it’s
getting you one step closer to your next yes! You got this, so let’s get it done!
Share a winning experience with the Her Corner community to help inspire a fellow boss.